What is Adoption?
Considering adoption as one of your options around this unexpected pregnancy?
Adoption may or may not be for you. It may feel overwhelming.
The first step in this or any decision around your pregnancy is to gather good information.
Adoption provides an opportunity to continue pursuing the life goals and dreams you have while allowing the 9-month pregnancy process to complete in your body.
You may have been told that adoption is a selfish choice.
Adoption is an alternative to an abortion or parenting when you aren’t ready.
You are in control. You get to decide which adoption professionals to work with and even the prospective adoptive parents:
When you are considering an adoption, you review which adoption plan is right for you!
Questions about adoption can be found below:
What is the difference between open, semi-open, and closed adoptions?
The amount of information, confidentiality, and access between the birth mother, adopted child, and adoptive parents that is shared before, during, and after the adoption.
How do I know which type of adoption is right for me?
Ask questions. Gather information. Talk with a trusted advisor and friend. Usually, the right option is the one that gives you peace.
What is the legal process of adoption?
Adoption is the legal termination and reassignment of parental rights of a child. The process is finalized in court and considered legal. We recommend you consult with a professional for the proper next steps in your adoption decision.
The waiting period and adoption process is different in each state
What is an independent adoption?
An adoption solely using an attorney without the involvement of an agency is called an independent adoption. The decision to have an independent adoption is not common, but it is an option. The adopting couple will still have to do a home study with an agency to ensure the child being placed is going to a safe and prepared home. Most birth mothers find comfort in working with an agency to help them navigate their plan.
Should I use an agency when making an adoption plan?
You get to choose. Either way there are traditionally no costs to you at all. The pros in using an agency are the ability to have an advocate and some level of privacy as you screen through prospective families for your child. We recommend doing significant research as you decide to go independent or utilize an agency.
If you think adoption is an option for you our staff at the Community Women’s Centers in Bucks and Philadelphia Counties in Pennsylvania, are here to support you. For more information call 267-239-0753 to schedule an appointment today.
Resources:
ChildWelfare.gov: Post-Adoption Services and Support
ChildWelfare.gov: Adoption Support and Preservation Services
Center for Adoption Support and Education: C.A.S.E. Resources